Tw: rape

http://msmagazine.com/blog/2016/03/24/trauma-in-the-courtroom-jian-ghomeshi-the-verdict-and-the-victims/

“Turns out that it’s actually an incredibly common reaction to want the boy who raped you to treat you well after, as if you could retroactively correct it,” she said. “Because to call a rape a rape—to name it what it is—is to acknowledge that something terrible has happened, that your life is forever changed, and that’s a really terrifying thing to do. It makes the most sense in the aftermath of a trauma to try to carry on as if it never happened, as if you could—and then you realize that you can’t.”